"During the last year I have tried a number of other treatments that I have paid for privately, I took Samantha to see a Harley Street Hypnotherapist and she has had a number of sessions with a coach who works with low self esteem. You may recall that I was very critical of these types of self help groups when you mentioned ‘First Steps’ to me but when you feel as desperate as I and I’m sure many other parents in my position must feel you are prepared to try anything.